Work It Out
Love isn't always a walk in the park. It does find the time to get complicated. So, for those of you who often bare the burden of frustration as it pertains to the battle between your nerves and your patience, be strong. Now, I know he pisses you off every now and again. But sometimes, our level of stubbornness and failure to compromise, don't match the action. Ok; so he makes us mad and we really want to give in and let it go, but we have that damn Mary J. Blige song stuck in our head, telling us to be on guard and not so unassuming. Or we just had an argument, but because we've been reading Facebook quotes on our newsfeed all day, we opt against the "I'm sorry," and choose to embrace the "Don't talk to me." And for what? Is that what we consider to be winning? Again, if we don't choose to appreciate our love, we lose it. And most arguments simply aren't important enough to lose a day of love over.
Some actions and behaviors however, are worth an argument. If you don't feel loved, he works more than he makes love to you, and everything but you seems to be his priority, it's time to have a sit-down conversation about where the relationship is going. If we aren't willing to fight for each other, we might as well let it go. I once heard a couple (who'd been married for 65 years) say that, "The key to a long and successful relationship is not falling out of love at the same time. If there's always one person fighting for the relationship, it at least has a possibility for survival. But the minute both parties give up, and there's no one fighting to keep the relationship intact, then it ends, and both parties walk away." So I urge each and every one of you to fight for him if he's worth it. Work it out, for the sake of your heart, work it out.
Now, when he stops coming home at night, stops answering his phone when you call, isn't faithful to you, continuously lies to you, and brings things to you that you don't, won't, and should never accept, donate your two cents to the cause and then proceed to dump his ass. NO EXCUSES!
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Some actions and behaviors however, are worth an argument. If you don't feel loved, he works more than he makes love to you, and everything but you seems to be his priority, it's time to have a sit-down conversation about where the relationship is going. If we aren't willing to fight for each other, we might as well let it go. I once heard a couple (who'd been married for 65 years) say that, "The key to a long and successful relationship is not falling out of love at the same time. If there's always one person fighting for the relationship, it at least has a possibility for survival. But the minute both parties give up, and there's no one fighting to keep the relationship intact, then it ends, and both parties walk away." So I urge each and every one of you to fight for him if he's worth it. Work it out, for the sake of your heart, work it out.
Now, when he stops coming home at night, stops answering his phone when you call, isn't faithful to you, continuously lies to you, and brings things to you that you don't, won't, and should never accept, donate your two cents to the cause and then proceed to dump his ass. NO EXCUSES!
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