Just A Thought (Who's the Boss?):

It's crazy how some of you blame other women for the demise of your relationships; women who've likely never met you, let alone, know that you exist (if they know you that's a different can of ass whooping). A woman's relationship with her man doesn't end where another woman's begins. A man makes a choice to betray you, disregard your feelings, or put you at risk. And his not being strong enough, disciplined enough, or faithful enough simply means that he's not man enough to love you. Don't hate your sister for that; she's looking for love too--but do leave your man for that. I would hope that if she knows he's taken that she'll just ‪#‎WalkOnBy‬. Just know that if he never entertains her, there's no problem to begin with. If he does entertain her, but fails to inform her of his "other life," she thinks he's ripe for the picking, just as you did when you stumbled upon his womanizing ass. ‪#‎BlameTheCriminal‬ ‪#‎NotTheVictim‬... ‪#‎LoveYourSister‬‪#‎LoveTheRightMan‬ and while you're at it, ‪#‎LoveYourself‬!!!

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible