Just A Thought (The Joker):

​#Ladies, be not deceived. These jokers will have ya'll asses out here looking stupid, making you feel like you're doing too much, and have you overlooking the obvious because they don't believe they should have to change. Contrary to popular theory, relationships do change us. Love changes us. We alter our schedules, spend time in places where we never saw ourselves, and we begin to try new things. Those experiences create a certain level of growth. And from that growth sprouts maturity, reason, respect, sacrifice and compromise. Don't ever let a man (or woman, fellas) disrespect you like this, then downplay your feelings as something insignificant. If the tables were turned and the script was flipped, we'd be seeing bottles flying and noses bleeding. When it's okay for him, but not for you, leave him alone. #HeAintIt!!!!
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible