Ladies, please #stop advising your #friends, ingraining your #daughters, or believing (yourselves) that the #definition of love is how much#foolishness you're willing to #tolerate, how much #bullshit you can endure, how much #time you're willing to #waste, or how long you #waited (aka "#loyalty") for him to commit before he decided to stop playing and "settled" down with you. THAT ISN'T #LOVE!!!! It's #indifference. It's "She's been my A-1 since day 1" (i.e., she's the only one who let me do what I wanted and now she's the last one standing; I owe it to her). It's "Fuck it; why not?" C'mon ladies; we're better than this. #Settling for 'less than' is not love. Investing your #precious time in tears and hurt shows an absence of self-love. And being forced to #endure #drama means HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!! STOP for just a #moment and think about this. I know that you#hate being #lonely. I know that he's who you want. But put your #ego aside; your #infatuation aside; and your #fidelity aside, and step forward and see yourself.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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