Just A Thought (Terms and Conditions):

​Before you agree to enter into a relationship with him, make sure that your‪ #‎titles‬ and ‪#‎definitions‬ match. ‪#‎Ijs‬...too many of you are ‪#‎girlfriends‬ but have not the slightest clue what that means to him. When ‪#‎women‬ hear 'girlfriend', we instantly thrust ourselves into "wifey" mode. But calm down, and ask him what being in a ‪#‎relationship‬ means to him before you book that trip to Miami or give him the keys to your crib. Because truth be told, most of you are claiming ‪#‎men‬ who aren't claiming ‪#‎you‬. Most ‪#‎males ‬have a difficult time severing their ties with "the single life," which often times equates to you being his main girl, not his only girl. A "commitment" from him doesn't always have the ‪#‎loyalty‬ attached to it that you're hoping for. So know what you're signing up for. The same way that we have different definitions of ‪#‎love‬, we have different definitions of ‪#‎relationships‬. DontGetGot!!! Read the ‪#‎TermsAndConditions‬.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible