We've become so addicted to the idea of "fighting" for our #relationships, that we've lost sight of what that truly means. Real #women don't have to throw hissy-fits, cry night after night, or toss around empty ultimatums to keep a real #man. When we waste time "fighting" for men that can't or don't desire the same things that we do, we become weak. If you have no self-respect, are willing to #settle, are willing to wait for his #games to stop, choose to accept less than what's deserving, and remain unwilling to leave or move on, you're who I'm talking to. Stop reading the memes that have you thinking silly shit, quit screen-shot'n the quotes that are being taken out of context, and try to understand what the #Hashtags at the end of the messages you're reading really mean. Stop attempting to make men love you who never will. #ItllDestroyYou #TrustMe Stay away from men that do everything BUT love you, and bring nothing more to the table than a hard #dick, a lot of #confusion, and a whole bag of #priorities that don't include you. Relationships aren't that hard when you're with a man who's all about you; a man who's #READY to be with you. Stop choosing the man who makes promises that even you know he won't keep. Stop falling in #love with the man that #cheats, then justifies it by blaming you. Stop fronting for the #camera, pretending to be in love just so you look happy on Instagram. Ladies, seriously; what criteria do you have for keeping his bogus ass around? Explain it to me. Is he fine, girl? I know he's fine. #SMH...but #ThatsNotEnough Does he treat you better than the rest of his dolls? #Gasp Maybe ya'll just can't stay broken up?#NowIGetIt!!! Being his "go-to" makes you feel irresistible, right? How many times have you taken him back now? 4 times? 7? 12? Or is it that you're like no one else and he's just not able to let you go, even when he's in another "relationship?" #SheAintYou #S #W #V #GirlBye This pot we're throwing our hearts into is real-life. This isn't a fairy tale, or an R&B song. Romantic comedies do not apply here. #WakeUp and realize that if he ain't willing to hold you up, he can't possibly hold you down. #GetAGrip or#StopComplaining #TBT #2014
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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