Just A Thought (TBT; 2015):

Love: Possible is NOT a male-bashing movement; it's a self-love movement; an accountability movement, and a let's-make-better-decisions movement. I'm not here to perpetuate any disdain for the male species, but I am here to help nudge you into an understanding of "better." We're not professing our dislike for men, we're simply upgrading our expectations of them. We're no longer valuing the idea of‪#‎relationships‬ to the detriment of self, nor valuing the idea of love to thedetriment of our ‪#‎happiness‬. We're no longer blaming men for the whole of our ‪#‎tears‬ because we've chosen to play a part in our ‪#‎drama‬--a part that we need to identify, own up to, and move beyond. Ladies, all of this newfound ‪#‎wisdom‬, ‪#‎strength‬ and ‪#‎courage‬ SHOULD lead us to make better decisions, choose better mates, and live our best lives. So let's choose to stop wasting time. Let's choose to stop chasing men who are chasing other women. Let's choose to ‪#‎stop‬ attempting to change what we have no control over. And let's choose to employ our common sense.‪#‎Truth‬ is, we have to choose to ‪#‎GrowUp‬, or make the choice not to‪#‎complain‬. ‪#‎TBT‬ #2015
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible