Broken individuals CANNOT have whole #relationships. #BelieveIt!!!! Now, HEAR THIS: If your man/woman is broken, it is not your job to fix them, it's theirs. And while you may find it commendable to stand by them while they "justifiably" abuse you, continuously make poor #choices, and slowly, but surely self-destruct, LET'S BE HONEST: all you're really doing is waiting for them to #change, hoping to reap the benefits of your #loyalty, and subsequently rewarded for your #strength. [#ThatsSelfish.] But how long do you wait for change? And are the #tears you shed a symbol of your strength, or your stupidity? How about the #stress, or worry you endure? And all of this to stand by a shell of a man/woman who'll eventually break you too. If he/she truly loves you, they'd want you to have the best them they could be, but it's very possible that they don't know how to give it to you. So I'm telling you: that you loving them means you've got to let them find who or what that is. In that, we must learn to #LetGo, or at the very least, loosen the grip, because we can't grow together if we don't walk a similar path. #DontLetHisBrokennessBreakYou#DontLetHerFoolishnessFuckYouUp #BeSmarter Trying to love a man/woman in spite of all they are is commendable, but sacrificing your sanity to make it a reality is stupid. #WakeUp #TBT #2014
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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