-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
#Men won't change unless #women do. The rules don't #change unless our #expectations do. And the process of choosing a whole #man can only begin after we make up our minds to both #expect and accept whole men—not half-assin' it, just-to-get-by men, not other women's men, and not the crumbs that not-so-good men offer. It's sad to say, but we're creating much of our own misery because we're afraid to let go, are afraid to walk away, or are #afraid to be alone. I'm not saying we deserve the back and forth, the side pieces, the #disrespect, #drama, #lies or #games. I'm not making excuses for some of their bullshit antics or socially-accepted, asinine #behaviors. But how much of our heartbreak is truly their fault, if we allow it? We may not deserve it...but what's the difference between what's #deserved and what's accepted? If we stay, not a damn thing. #TBT #2014
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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