-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
Love is NOT an excuse to be stupid. Love is NEVER an excuse to tolerate abuse. Love is NOT a viable reason to go back to, or stay in an unhealthy situation. Love does not lie to you, beat you, slap you, spit on you, cheat on you, manipulate you, hurt you, provoke pain, rob you of your joy, or disrespect you. Stop chasing the man/woman that brings dysfunction to your space; frowns to your mouths, worries to your minds, and tears to your eyes. THIS IS NOT LOVE!!!!! Love you first. [Repeat.] Love you most. [Repeat.] Before we can couple ourselves with our forever, we have to find happiness in our today. And your "happy" depends on you, not him/her. If they make you happy, I'm happy for you. If not, exit stage left. Staying with someone who does not benefit your life, increase your joy, or uplift your life is the epitome of DUMB!!!!! [It doesn't matter how much you love them. The more valid question is: How much do you love you?] Love DOES NOT matter if there is no respect, no happiness, and no light to couple it with. Believe that if you don't fix it soon, you're gonna pay for it with your sanity, your freedom, or even worse, your life. #IKnowItHurts #ButWalkAway#WorkOnYou #StartOver #ItsOkay #TBT #2014
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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