Just A Thought (TBT: 2014):

Ladies, please take the time to hear me out: not every man has good intentions, and not every man can love us the way we should be or deserve to be loved, even if we are a "great catch." [It's not rocket science; it's reality.] Your face can be perfect, your body flawless, and your cooking off the chain; you may be successful by every stretch of the imagination, and your bedroom skills could arguably put "Superhead" to shame. But his only intention may be to use you, not love you; his insecurities may put him in constant competition with you, or you're just not his type. [Don't take it personally.] You admit that you've tried to love him; and then him, and even him, but they can't all be "the One," and if you looked a little closer, most should've never had the opportunity to audition. Try to honestly recognize then, in this instance, whether he's "Mr. Right," "Mr. Right Now," or "Mr. Don't Won't Can't Happen Never Ever," because not every man will suit your needs; they weren't all constructed to complement you. They can't all appreciate the way you carry yourself, desire to change the world, or light up a room. Just because you love him doesn't make him strong enough or worthy enough to hold you down, or be in your space. You've got to own that. So stop trying to make square pegs fit into round holes unless, that is, you enjoy the struggle, the time it wastes, and the same, old end result of being broken.‪ #‎UseYourDiscernment‬ ‪#‎OnlyLoveCapableMen‬ ‪#‎TBT‬ #2014
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible