Just A Thought (Talk to Him):

Some of you may beg to differ, but WHEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOUR MAN, TALK TO YOUR MAN! If you're not happy with your man, tell your man. If the relationship isn't working for you, let him know. And if you're ready to move on, he shouldn't hear it through the grapevine. Too many of you run to your mama when there's a problem. You can't wait to tell your girlfriend that you're fed up. And while I know that your mama and your bestie both help you to keep your sanity, or make you see the role you play in your drama, talking to them won't help if you ain't talking to him. Now, if he isn't receptive to your concerns, I already know that your girlfriend can't wait to tell you how to #DumpHisAss, but until then, #TalkToYourMan.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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