Just A Thought (Sources of Frustration):

​If he lies to you, he's a ‪#‎liar‬. ‪#‎Period‬. No more discussion to be had. If you stay in a ‪#‎relationship‬ with a liar, you send the ‪#‎message‬ that you enjoy the ‪#‎fantasies‬ and fairy tales he feeds you. It means that you're accepting of his lies, and ‪#‎games‬, and ‪#‎disrespect‬, and ‪#‎trust‬ me when I tell you, this sets a dangerous precedent in your relationship with him. How do you depend on a liar? How do you trust a liar? How do you grow with a liar?‪#‎YouCant‬!!! Not only does the continuation of this ‪#‎foolishness‬ allow him to emotionally abuse you, making you ‪#‎insecure‬ and ‪#‎suspicious‬, it also means you don't believe yourself to be deserving of his ‪#‎loyalty‬, ‪#‎honesty‬, or fidelity. Accepting his shit goes way beyond "turning a blind eye" to what you know to be truth or deception. There's levels to this shit. But sadly, some of ya'll just want a man and don't care too much about having your‪#‎love‬ reciprocated.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible