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Just A Thought (Single Status): 

7/27/2015

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Ladies, let's talk. Now, ‪#‎correct‬ me if I'm wrong, but I don't think there's anything wrong with men being ‪#‎single‬ (or women either, for that matter). Recently, I had the privilege of having a rather lengthy ‪#‎conversation‬ with some guys about women's ‪#‎attitudes‬ toward their "single" ‪#‎statuses‬. And the argument that I made was that "Women have no issues with men being single. What they have an issue with are ‪#‎men‬ who play ‪#‎games‬with them." When they all smiled, I said, "If you're with her, and play with her, you're an asshole. If you're lying to her to get what you want from her, you're a ‪#‎punk‬. And if you consistently sell ‪#‎dreams‬ to her and allow her to ‪#‎invest‬ in you when you know you have no positive, long-term‪#‎intentions‬, you're not a real man." I then reiterated that "Women aren't bothered by single men, we're bothered by men pretending to be everything but. And contrary to popular belief, every ‪#‎woman‬ isn't dying to‪#‎settle‬ down. But I would be willing to bet that those who are, really want a family. But no matter what she wants or doesn't want, no one deserves to have their time wasted on ‪#‎people‬ who don't value it." Any thoughts?

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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    I, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves.

    Subsequently, both my book and my website seek to help salvage our realistic expectations and eliminate our unrealistic beliefs. With these words, I aim to transform misconception into certainty, and disillusion into faith, in hopes that you'll each come to recognize who you are, what you are, and what you deserve.

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