
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
![]() Most often, in our relationships, we don't get what we give; we get what we accept. And I'd be willing to bet that those of you who need to start over are so afraid of losing your "man," to find someone more compatible that you sit there and settle for less than you need, which leads to the acceptance of foolishness, confusion, hopelessness, bitterness, and ultimately unhappiness. Someone's reading this thinking: "Having someone is better than having no one." And believe me, #IGetIt. But emptiness is emptiness, whether he's there nightly to help warm your sheets or not. We have to be honest about what we're experiencing, what we're feeling, and what we're doing because perpetuating this cycle is what leads to our brokenness. Promises mean what? And potential has nothing to do with the present. For some of you, it's simply time to #WalkAway #NoMoreFear #NoMoreSettling #FewerPoorChoices #BeInControlOfWhatAffectsYou -Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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