Just A Thought (Settling):

Most often, in our relationships, we don't get what we give; we get what we accept. And I'd be willing to bet that those of you who need to start over are so afraid of losing your "man," to find someone more compatible that you sit there and settle for less than you need, which leads to the acceptance of foolishness, confusion, hopelessness, bitterness, and ultimately unhappiness. Someone's reading this thinking: "Having someone is better than having no one." And believe me, #IGetIt. But emptiness is emptiness, whether he's there nightly to help warm your sheets or not. We have to be honest about what we're experiencing, what we're feeling, and what we're doing because perpetuating this cycle is what leads to our brokenness. Promises mean what? And potential has nothing to do with the present. For some of you, it's simply time to #WalkAway #NoMoreFear #NoMoreSettling #FewerPoorChoices #BeInControlOfWhatAffectsYou

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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