-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
Love??? #LOL!!! What's love got to do with it? #Seriously. You love him, but does he love you? You love him, but who else is he sharing his bed, your bed, or yall's bed with? You love him, but does he respect you? You love him, but does he claim you? Ya'll keep throwing love in the air like confetti and hoping it lands where it's supposed to. But "hoping" and "knowing" are surely not the same, so stop confusing what is, with what we hope it becomes. Our failure to discern and learn is the source of our frustration with relationships; our bitterness, our feelings of defeat, and our inability to recover from our brokenness. #CmonYall; see him for whoever and whatever he is. And while you're focusing, see yourselves in your choices of him and those who came before.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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