Just A Thought (Rule of Thumb #48):

Rule of thumb #48: He'll never be the man you need him to be if you're not the woman he truly wants. You can try as hard as you want, but if he's intentionally "loving you" for the moment, waiting for better; you will ‪#‎never‬be good enough, sweet enough, or pretty enough to please him. Look at it this way: Would you continue to waste time dieting, if for 6 months you failed to lose any weight? You'd surely feel like it was a waste of time, right? But let's be honest, that's only because you were eating the wrong foods. Ladies, he can taste good, look good, and smell good, but as my grandma used to say: "Everything that glitters, ain't gold." ‪#‎LetHimGo‬ and‪#‎DoWhatsBestForYourHeart‬; ‪#‎StopCheatingYourself‬, and‪#‎StopWastingTime‬!!! If he wants you, he'll prove it. If he doesn't, he'll make excuses. ‪#‎ItsThatSimple‬.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible