Just A Thought (No One In The World):

Brothers, when you take time to uplift your woman, compliment your woman, speak life into your ‪#‎woman‬, give love to your woman, and are consistent with your woman, other ‪#‎men‬ DO NOT exist. Okay...I won't lie to you, she has eyes too. She may see him, and he may look good, but that means very little to her, if you make her feel good. She won't risk your heart or her relationship with you without good reason. I spoke, at length, to some male friends a few days ago, and I tried to explain to them that if a woman loves you and feels loved by you, you don't have to worry about who wants her, because she wants you. That's a cardinal mistake on the part of men. Women don't need your ‪#‎jealousy‬, ‪#‎insecurity‬, or‪#‎ultimatums‬ to behave. ‪#‎Women‬ don't cheat because a man is fine. We cheat because he's fine, and he listens, and he acts, and he shows, and he gives. We won't ever throw it all away for nice ties, or big thighs if our man gives us time and attention at home. If she cheats, you've dropped the ball somewhere. And even still, she'll do all she can to convey her‪#‎unhappiness‬ before she steps out on you, or leaves you completely. If you love a woman wholly, she will do ‪#‎ANYTHING‬ for you. Shit, there's proof: Most women change their names for you. They fuck up their bodies multiple times to have babies for you. They take certain precautions (i.e., birth control) because you don't want any more ‪#‎babies‬ (or none at all). They wear heels that fuck up their backs and their feet. They wear Spanx that cut off their circulation. They cover their faces in poison (make-up) on a daily basis. Their hair is being fried, cut, or colored for you. They spend hours in nail shops breathing in toxic fumes. They spend hundreds of dollars on lingerie to remain attractive to you. And you can't see that she doesn't want to be anywhere else? Women hate being ignored,especially by their man. So...if she cheats (or has a desire to), you are not loving her properly. ‪#‎FixIt‬!!! She's not going to spend years begging for your‪#‎attention‬ and ‪#‎affection‬. ‪#‎Sorry‬!!! I don't condone cheating of any kind. However, it may fare you well to listen to her, and take care of her needs. It's not just about ‪#‎sex‬ for women. Your connection means the world to her. Like anything else in life, she needs regular maintenance.‪#‎WelcomeToManhood‬!!!
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible