Just A Thought (Never As Good As the First Time):

The only romantic relationship that you will ever experience where love is enough, is the first relationship you ever experience. Our first relationships are typically fairy tale-like; unrealistic and naive. Essentially, we don't know any better, so it's difficult for us to desire more. But love never has been, and never will be enough. It may make us try harder; it may allow us to make excuses for what we allow to happen, or make us hold on (even in those times when we should let go). But without reciprocation, respect, compatibility, communication, maturity, fidelity, certainty, and a few dozen other attributes, our relationships are doomed for failure. Don't be afraid to have expectations; they're necessary. As long as they aren't unrealistic, your relationship has a chance to exist realistically. 

-Kanika Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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