Just A Thought (Must Haves):

If you don't have reciprocity, compromise, or sacrifice in your relationship, YOU DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. Period! No need to second-guess it. If you have to track him down, look for him, or beg him to come home, he's not yours. If you have to check his trunk, scroll through his texts, or hack into his Facebook, Twitter and Instagram accounts, he's not yours. If he has any other women on his roster, outside of you (wife, girlfriend, side piece, jump-off, B.U.D.D.Y., or head doctor), he's not yours. And if you have to inspect his drawers, smell his dick, threaten other women, or hire a Private-I to keep tabs on him, he...is...not...yours! Ladies!!!!!!! Please, please get it through your heads, that if he does not love you willingly (without ultimatum, pressure, or trickery), HE IS NOT YOURS!#JustWalkAway; no bats, no bruises, no blasts on social media. Just walk away. If he can't love you wholly, you don't need him. And if he isn't willing to give up the bullshit so that your heart may know and understand the measure of real love, why are you still sitting there wondering what you can do to fix him? #FixYourself #HealYourself #LoveYourself #ThenFindAManWhoWillLoveYouThatWayToo

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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