Just A Thought (Message):

TO MY READERS: Not to cause any disruption or confusion, but I will not apologize for my posts, nor will I delete them. If you don't like what they say, don't read them. These words aren't meant to hurt your feelings, but at the same time, they're not written to salvage them either. [I'm here to help you, not coddle you or sugarcoat shit for you.] What I write is honest and sincere. These aren't assumptions; they're experiences, and the tears you've shed reading them or the anger you feel reflecting on them means you're with the wrong man/woman, in the wrong relationship, or are unwilling, ill-prepared, or just too damn sensitive for what I'm spitting. I enjoy getting feedback from each of you. I'm humbled that my words have reached many of you, and I even respect those of you who don't agree with my opinions, experiences and observations. But please don't get angry with me because I know what I know. Some of the posts that I write were actually notes that I wrote to myself during my darkest times, when my heart was heavy, when the tears wouldn't stop, and the pain seemed like it would go on forever. There is a story attached to each letter, each syllable, each message. #IngestIt or #IgnoreIt #YourChoice #ButYouWontSilenceMe I'm not bitter, I'm not broken, I'm not angry. What I am now is: prepared, strong, and knowing. What I am now is: well-versed in what I will and won't accept, and how worthy I am to receive what I offer. I just want each of you to know the same. 

-Kanika A. Vann 
Author, Love: Possible

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