Just A Thought (Meaningful Conversations):

​These superficial ‪#‎conversations‬ ya'll having ain't helping ‪#‎matters‬. You can't ‪#‎build‬ with somebody without knowing their reality. How can you be in a ‪#‎relationship‬ with a man that you're ‪#‎afraid‬ to ask ‪#‎questions‬ or a woman that you're afraid to ‪#‎talk‬ to? How do you walk through life beside a‪#‎stranger‬? What is he afraid of? What are her ‪#‎insecurities‬? Are there things you should know about ‪#‎him‬/‪#‎her‬ that would come back to‪#‎embarrass‬ you? Do his ‪#‎values‬ align with yours? What are the things she finds intolerable? You have to know these things. I mean, what is ‪#‎love‬, if not ‪#‎truth‬ and ‪#‎sincerity‬? You all are afraid to love forreal. You want fairy tales, laughs, and lattes. But one day you'll wake up not knowing who he/she is and wondering how the ‪#‎transformation‬ took place without your‪#‎knowledge‬. It'll happen because you don't know who you're in the room with. The sad part is that you could have saved yourself some time or stress had you had some real conversations. Truth severs ties where they need to be severed, but whether your bonds are broken or strengthen by the honesty, it's always beneficial. ‪#‎TruthBeTold‬
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible