-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
These superficial #conversations ya'll having ain't helping #matters. You can't #build with somebody without knowing their reality. How can you be in a #relationship with a man that you're #afraid to ask #questions or a woman that you're afraid to #talk to? How do you walk through life beside a#stranger? What is he afraid of? What are her #insecurities? Are there things you should know about #him/#her that would come back to#embarrass you? Do his #values align with yours? What are the things she finds intolerable? You have to know these things. I mean, what is #love, if not #truth and #sincerity? You all are afraid to love forreal. You want fairy tales, laughs, and lattes. But one day you'll wake up not knowing who he/she is and wondering how the #transformation took place without your#knowledge. It'll happen because you don't know who you're in the room with. The sad part is that you could have saved yourself some time or stress had you had some real conversations. Truth severs ties where they need to be severed, but whether your bonds are broken or strengthen by the honesty, it's always beneficial. #TruthBeTold
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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