Just A Thought (Love It or Leave It):

5/15/2014

Sometimes love gets better with time; other times, we outgrow it. And there's nothing wrong with either outcome. Our intentions when we enter relationships are to find love and keep it; grow old with it and hold onto it. But when it's time to walk away, we have to walk away. When we outgrow our clothes, our houses, and our careers we change them, so why not our love? Why hold on to a relationship that inhibits us? Minimizes us? Hurts us? Manipulates us or lies to us? Working to keep and better a love that is beneficial to us is commendable, yes. However, holding on to a broken love; one that fails to better us, only helps to weaken us, defeat us and disrespect us. The main reason we become bitter in (and after) relationships is because we hold on longer than we should. When its time to tap out, we can't fear it. Learn when/if it's time to let go.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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I, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves.

Subsequently, both my book and my website seek to help salvage our realistic expectations and eliminate our unrealistic beliefs. With these words, I aim to transform misconception into certainty, and disillusion into faith, in hopes that you'll each come to recognize who you are, what you are, and what you deserve.

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