Just A Thought (It's Not About You):

If he ain't shit, it's not about you. If he's irresponsible, it's not about you. If he's unfaithful, it's not about you. If he's untruthful, it's not about you. If he's indecisive, it's not about you. And if he's controlling it's not about you. However, because he's a manipulator, and you think you love him, you've made this about you. But in all honesty, if he's an irresponsible, unfaithful, dishonest, indecisive, controlling, or manipulative jackhole... umm...it needs to be about him--getting some help. Stop wasting your time on everything wrong for you simply because it looks right. We bash men daily for wasting time on superficial slut puppies over substantive total packages, when we're doing the same shit. The difference with us though, is that we make the mistake of loving them. But loving a man that can't love you back not only destroys your self-esteem, it ruins any hope you have of finding what is meant and was always meant for you--love.‪#‎DontBeDumb‬ ‪#‎GoodLoveComesFromGoodMen‬

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible