Sooooo....about these "IT'S COMPLICATED" relationship statuses. #Hmmm#WhatDoTheyMeanToYou? That you fight for what you want? That it's#TrueLove? That you're #Loyal to the point of stupidity? Are#WillingToWaitForever? Or would you say that it's just#TooComplicatedForWords? #IHearThatDumpTruckBackingIn [Do you? You should.] To some extent, every relationship is complicated, has its own set of ups and downs, its word battles, its disappointments, and feelings of defeat. But by going the extra mile and claiming to be "on the rocks" rather than "In A Relationship," you're making a statement about what you're experiencing; something that you're not quite ready to acknowledge. So, what are you saying exactly; that you're in a relationship with him, but he's not in one with you? [Then you're SINGLE; it ain't complicated.] Do you mean that one of you is fighting for the relationship and that the other one is flirting outside of it? [Then you're SINGLE; it ain't complicated.] Are you holding on to the illusion of a happily ever after with him/her, and have decided to show your loyalty by setting up shop in spite of how badly he/she treats you or how much he/she embarrasses you? #SMH If its that difficult, just rename it: You're SINGLE. Don't waste time with a partner that's half-ass investing in you. We gotta cut this shit out, man. They either want you or they don't. They desire to be there or they don't. They're gonna be monogamous or they won't. What are you waiting for then? For the lies to stop? For the games to cease? For the playing to slow down? For him or her to make a decision? [I'm just asking you to reassess who you are to your mate.] So let's be honest, in it's current state, where does your relationship lie?#IWantTheTruth #TheWholeTruth #AndNothingButTheTruth
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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