Just A Thought (How Can I Ease The Pain):

​"How Can I Ease the Pain" is easily one of my favorite songs. My sister and I loved it before we ever understood it. But as an adult, the answer is clear: LEAVE HIS ASS ALONE!!!! Anyone who brings inconsistency, confusion, tears, or stress to you DOES NOT LOVE YOU!!!! #CannotPossibly!!!! And your heart can't be trusted when it's broken. So give your common sense a chance to kick in when you're grieving. Love requires his care, his concern, and his protection of you. And if he can't give all of that to you, you're setting yourself up for the exact pain that Ms. Fischer is sanging about. #DontDoItToYourself #EaseYourCommonSense
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible