Just A Thought (He's Not Yours):

Ladies, if he always has an excuse; always has some chick (not related to him by blood) blowing up his phone, is always M.I.A., can't leave his phone for a second (even sleeps with it under his pillow), and can recall doing things with you that you know you haven't done— [drum roll, please] that man is cheating. If you're dating, in love with, or married to this man, pack your shit, lose his number, schedule a check-up with your gynecologist, and never look back. Do not pass go!!! Do not reminisce!!! Do not answer when he calls!!! Do not lose your mind!!! And do not get locked up because you hope to get even, or because you see him in the streets later on with one of his thots (who, by the way, may actually be a nice woman, or happens to be just as naive as you were). He's not worth it, but you are. So go out and find a man that knows it. #DontBeBitter #BeBetter #BeSmarter #YoureWorthIt#AndYouKnowIt

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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