LADIES, we are too damn old to believe in #promises!!!!! We've endured too damn much to believe without #seeing!!! We are too beautiful and more than worthy enough to gain his whole heart, but have managed to convince ourselves that half of it...shit, just some of it...is good enough for now. We are willing to endure his selfishness, abuse, and deceit because we think our stupidity will pay off later. [#Insanity!!!!] We've been lied to so much or have been dickmatized into believing that our weakness is sure to pay off when he's ready. [#Dreams!!!!] At this stage in the game, we should be seasoned beyond the point of stupidity, and wise beyond the point of desperation. I cannot say this loud enough: 🔊 WE GOTTA BELIEVE LESS OF HIS POTENTIAL, AND MORE OF HIS REALITY. 📢The possibilty (and likelihood) of change ain't shit compared to the proof he should be required to show to gain your heart, your trust, and your time. Ladies, stop being so fu€%ing stupid; we are simply too damn old to be this naive, and frankly, should love ourselves too damn much to accept his #bullshit. I am soooo thankful to have been delivered from my youthful idealism, my happily-ever-after Disney mentality, my low self-esteem, and my empty acceptance for the mere presence of a man, when I honestly craved him in his entirety. #GetAGrip or #BuyAToy... #DoWhatYouMust...#Idc. But, #YouveGotToLoveYourselvesMoreThanThis. #TrustMe;#YoureWorthIt!!!
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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