If the #universe continuously offers you a way out of your relationship, take it; don't complain. Because 9 times out of 10, your logic and intuition gave you one or six opportunities to write his ass off before, and yet you chose to ignore them. #ItAllHappensForAReason; embrace it, recognize it, and #MoveOn. When you know that your relationship isn't "normal," fluid, or consistent, that's reason enough to get out of it. When you acknowledge that he just can't do what he's supposed to, #ItsASign. When things never seem to add up, making it work is causing undue stress, and after every make up, you just can't seem to stay happy for very long,#GirlRun. You think, if only we weren't so in love, and yet so incompatible, we'd have a chance. #Smh [Side note: He's not "IT."] Everything you need to know is typically laid out before you. Every feeling of doubt has been validated multiple times, but you're still standing still. #Why? If every choice he makes leads to you being unhappy, and there's nothing short of leaving him that changes that for you, #Leave... #NOW!!! If he's foul, trifling, disrespectful, or abusive, LEAVE NOW!!! If he can't keep his groin area to himself, don't chock that shit up to "Well, he's a man,"#DumpHisAss, and keep it moving. #NoMoreExcuses!!!! It's time to go.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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