-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
He #cheated; you stayed. He lied; you stayed. He fathered a child; you stayed. He #hit you; you stayed. He #stole from you; you stayed. He#belittled you; you stayed. He #left you, for the sixth time now; you let him come back. He picks #fights with you, hoping you'll put him out (which gives him a pass to #embarrass you with a clear #conscious), so you try to#suppress your #reactions for the next time, which gives him the 'okay' to#manipulate you from now on. What about the #games and the #emotional#abuse are okay to you? Alright with you? Normal to you? When do you take the reins and acknowledge that you #deserve #better? #Stable?#Kind? #ChildBoo!!! Recognize the games, or keep losing. #YourChoice. Stop #diminishing your #value in pursuit of his #validation. Stop hoping his#lies away. Stop trying to #pray his #disrespect away. How about letting him go away? #LetHimGo!!!.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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