Ladies, please stop listening to the #lies, games, #dreams, and fairy tales that #BS men sell. He's not necessarily #single because they couldn't get along, or because "she" did him wrong. His exes aren't always to blame. Now, don't get it twisted: THERE ARE DEFINITELY SOME CRAZY A$$#WOMEN IN THE WORLD!!!! BUT (hear me now)...every woman that came before you wasn't #crazy, #insecure, or #jealous--despite what he says. They weren't all #disrespectful, #promiscuous, or selfish. However...[LET'S PAUSE TO RECOGNIZE THE #GAME]...there are lots of men who love to tell a good sob story, because when you ask him why he's so fine and single...so #ambitious and single... so mature and single....so perfect and still so single, he doesn't really want to (and typically won't just come out and) tell you that he's a #womanizer, a liar, a thief, a #manipulator, or grown ass boy. Why? Because he wants something from you, and as long as he looks like he's on pace to get it, he's gonna give you the best version of himself that he can give [#HisRepresentative]. Trust me!!! This is why you gotta know him before you like him, and like him before you love him. And fellas, the same goes for you. #SeeHerForWhatSheIs. It's easy to blame the party that can't defend themselves, and I know that we sometimes cross paths with some #sketchy characters. But if he appears to have no flaws, or sounds too good to be true, ummm...I'm willing to bet that 9 times out of 10, it's only a matter of time before the fireworks start.#PayAttention!! #KnowWhoYoureInTheRoomWith!!#StopPlayingTheseGames and #GetItTogether.#TheSameMistakesRepeatedAreChoices.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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