Just A Thought (Don't Lose Your Presence in his Presents):

You degrade yourself for his money; lose yourself in his presence; demean yourself for his presents; disregard his wife and other life for your selfishness; beg, borrow, and steal for his status, then wonder why you're single, unhappy, depressed, suicidal, and don't have shit. Instead of creating a whole you, you rely on other people to create "her" for you. And that my dear is the #WrongAnswer!!! #RealWomen are about their business, not about his come up. Stop relying on everyone else to get what you want.#WomanUp, #ListenUp, #RealTalk.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible