Just A Thought ('Daze'peration):

Are we so ‪#‎disillusioned‬ that we agree to give a man any and everything we are based on the promises he makes? Are we so desperate for affection that we're willing to give the likes of our virtue away to a‪#‎stranger‬ simply because he appears loving and affectionate? Ladies, when will it dawn on us that what a man says pales in comparison to what he can prove? When will we finally get it through our heads that attention and intention are not always related? We attract foolishness when we see him without hearing him, or accept him before interacting with him. We've got to stop jumping the gun, so that we can allow our interest in him to form into 'like'. And who knows? Maybe 'like' will have a chance to fall in‪#‎love‬. But know that three months in, he hasn't switched up on you; he is who he's always been, you just made the choice to skip to the good parts instead of seeing his ‪#‎truth‬!!!! ‪#‎Stop‬ ‪#‎Look‬ ‪#‎Listen‬

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible