Just A Thought (Costly Mistakes):

One of the biggest, most costly mistakes that women make is that we do everything ass-backwards, in our attempts to obtain relationships.#ThatsANoGo In many instances, we don't require honesty or commitment because we're too afraid to enforce it (although we have no problems bitching about not getting it). We let men do what they want, when they want, yet can't seem to understand why our emotions can't find any stability. We fuck them, THEN expect relationships; have their babies, THEN expect them to put rings on our fingers. Oh, and the icing on the cake; we give them money, THEN expect them to get jobs and/or pay bills. [Shaking my head.] At the rate we're going, men really have no reasons to commit to us, because in our desires to keep them, we haven't made them work for our hearts; we've decided that it's better to just give them every goddamn thing. But we must know that if we hand them everything, serve them everything, and expect nothing more than their presence, we are setting ourselves up for the most epic fail.#WakeUpLadies #HesGottaWorkForYouBoo #ThinkTwice #HeHasToEarnIt You're not in a #Relationship if he's not "with" you. #TeamSameTeam

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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