Just A Thought (Choosy Lover):

By nature, we're selfish. Let's be real—the first law of nature is self-preservation. We also want what we want when we want it; this is best known as impatience. And we constantly seek perfection but time and time again fail to offer very little of what we seek out in other people. When grouped together with all of your other flaws, how much of a catch do you really perceive yourself to be? We want the finest man, or the baddest chick. The complete package partner, or the perfect match. But what do we bring to the table? I guess what I really wanna know is: Would you marry you? I mean; eventually, you'd like someone else to, right? 

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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