Just A Thought (Change or Nah):

You can change your panties, but you can't change people. Remember that the next time you try to change your man, the next time you choose to wait in vain for his promises to come to fruition. If he wants to change, he will. If he doesn't, he won't. #RealSimple But if he can't provide you with what you need #DontWait, #DontHoldYourBreath, and #DontWasteYourTime. I guarantee that while you're sitting (or pacing), crying, hoping, and waiting, he's sampling, and enjoying every flavor. My advice then: #StopBeingStupid. Stop investing in men that aren't willing to love you back. And a word to the wise: Maybe THE CHANGE YOU NEED to make is with your thinking, because you have a grand misunderstanding of what love truly is if you (1) fail to love yourself, and (2) stay in a relationship where what you offer is not reciprocated. #UseYourCommonSense #DontBeScurred

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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