Just A Thought (Brother, Listen):

Brothers, I need you to hear me, because some of ya'll are slipping, and AIN'T quite doing your job. So, here it is: IF YOU LOVE HER MORE, YOU'LL LOVE HER MORE!!!! #TakeAMoment #ReadItAgain When you have a good woman by your side, who gives more than she takes, wants the best for you and the best from you, you have to appreciate her. If you know that your heart's grown bigger just being with her, that your life wouldn't be the same without her, and that together, you've become better people, dammit man; you gotta go to the moon and back for this woman. Too often, people take for granted their "good thing," sometimes risking it all for the likes of just "something," and a lot of times, end up with "nothing," because they didn't appreciate what they had and who they had, when they had it. A woman's heart compels her to love you a certain way, offer you certain things, and be all that she can be for you. But if you fail to protect her or love her correctly, choose to mistreat her, lie to her, abandon her, or prove to be less than a man to her, not only will she be unhappy, it'll trickle down and make you unhappy, and you'll eventually lose her. But if you were smarter, you'd realize that if you protect her, nurture her, and invest in her with even the simplest things, you could get anything and everything you want from her (or close to it). But it won't happen if you half-ass it with her, and it won't happen if you complain about everything you do for her. When you give her "service with a smile," I guarantee that in everything she does for you, she'll do it willingly and happily; shit, you may even catch her whistling.#DontSayIDidntTellYou. Just know that when your woman is happy, loved, and properly cared for, her man is happy, loved, and properly cared for.#ReciprocationIsKey #PutThatWomanFirst #YoullBeHappyYouDid 

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible