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Just A Thought (Balancing Act): 

8/4/2016

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​Stop trying to justify the ‪#‎hell‬ he puts you through by convincing yourself of the ‪#‎heaven‬ you've created in your ‪#‎mind‬. ‪#‎ItNeverEndsWell‬. Fairy tales will always lead to broken ‪#‎hearts‬, ‪#‎bitterness‬, and ‪#‎disillusion‬. I know that you want him to be the right ‪#‎man‬, but the only thing that makes that a‪#‎reality‬ are the ‪#‎choices‬ he makes. Your ‪#‎presence‬ or ‪#‎absence‬ in the midst of those choices, says so much about what you want, what you value, and what you're willing to work for. Whether you believe it or not, your ‪#‎selection‬ is nothing more than your ‪#‎reflection‬. But his choices to‪#‎cheat‬, ‪#‎lie‬, and ‪#‎play‬ are his own and you can't unsee them, pray them away, or ‪#‎pretend‬ that they don't exist. So stop acting like you don't notice his inconsistency, secrecy, and foolishness. ‪#‎Cheating‬ is not normal, ‪#‎lying‬ is not ‪#‎normal‬, and ‪#‎sadness‬ is not normal. But neither are your choices to accept any of it. In the end, you're the one who'll suffer because you've‪#‎chosen‬ to opt for the "happy ending" instead of acknowledging the reality before you. You are accepting of his lies if you don't leave. His cheating is acceptable if you stay. And his inconsistency works in your favor, or at least that's what you've told yourself everyday this week. ‪#‎Smh‬ ‪#‎GetItTogether‬
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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    I, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves.

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