Stop trying to justify the #hell he puts you through by convincing yourself of the #heaven you've created in your #mind. #ItNeverEndsWell. Fairy tales will always lead to broken #hearts, #bitterness, and #disillusion. I know that you want him to be the right #man, but the only thing that makes that a#reality are the #choices he makes. Your #presence or #absence in the midst of those choices, says so much about what you want, what you value, and what you're willing to work for. Whether you believe it or not, your #selection is nothing more than your #reflection. But his choices to#cheat, #lie, and #play are his own and you can't unsee them, pray them away, or #pretend that they don't exist. So stop acting like you don't notice his inconsistency, secrecy, and foolishness. #Cheating is not normal, #lying is not #normal, and #sadness is not normal. But neither are your choices to accept any of it. In the end, you're the one who'll suffer because you've#chosen to opt for the "happy ending" instead of acknowledging the reality before you. You are accepting of his lies if you don't leave. His cheating is acceptable if you stay. And his inconsistency works in your favor, or at least that's what you've told yourself everyday this week. #Smh #GetItTogether
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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