Just A Thought (Bad Boys):

Dear Girls,

I hear you like bad boys—those guys who act like they don't care about you, which makes you try harder to make them like you. Those guys who ignore you, making you try that much harder to be seen. Those guys who don't answer your calls or reply to your texts until late at night, which makes you wait around for nothing, while learning to accept the same. The guys who act distant, which... makes you act out to get their attention. Those guys who know they can get a lot of girls, and use their "swag" to make you feel insecure, and less beautiful, instead of one-in-a-million. The cowards who beat your ass and convince you that that's what love feels like. And those indecisive, wishy-washy guys, who love you one day, but not the next and keep you so confused that you struggle with the decision to leave them. But don't you know that you deserve better? [Waiting for your nod of approval.]  #RealizeIt #BelieveIt #AndOwnIt...If a man wants you, he'll meet you halfway; it's that simple. So don't settle for a bad boy, when you deserve a good man. 


-Kanika Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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