Just A Thought (Already Broken):

You say you love him. But how can you #love a #man that you don't #trust? You go through his phone, track his every move on social media, check his gas mileage, go through his pockets while he's asleep, and constantly ask him where he is and where he's going. His mother's and brother's numbers are in your favorites (even though they're not your favorite people); you question every receipt; and you want to know why he does everything from working out to choosing his clothes for work. Ok; so you're telling me that you've chosen to share your bed and your body with a fool? You share your fears and desires with a fool? You allow yourself to be vulnerable with a fool? You decide to make life-altering decisions (i.e., have children, buy houses, and adopt dogs) with a fool? LOVE CANNOT BE REAL OR#HONEST OR SUCCESSFUL WITHOUT TRUST. Looking beyond his#foolishness is not trust. Ignoring his reality is not trust. Praying for him to#change is not trust. And hoping it gets better is not trust. Sometimes it's just not worth it and you've got to learn to trust your #heart and walk away.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible