Ladies, please #stop abusing your #men. I know we often associate abuse with the male species; however, women can be #abusive too, just typically in a different capacity. Yelling at him and belittling him doesn't help your #relationship to grow. Sticking your fingers in his face means you don't #respect him---and if you don't respect a man, you CANNOT be in a relationship with him. Threatening to leave him or forcing him to alienate his friends and/or #family creates animosity between the two of you, but also with the people he loves most. Using your children as #baitnever helps. And only being nice to him when he gets paid makes you more like his pimp than his partner. Ladies, ladies, ladies...please hear me; the same way you don't want to be #manipulated or #manhandled(outside of the bedroom) is the same way he feels about your #rejection,#ridicule, and lack of respect. The same way you desire to find solace in his smile and in his arms, is the same reception he wants from you. No one gets married or enters a relationship hoping to be warn down, but not everyone is strong enough or smart enough to leave it. So, #ladies,#LoveYourMan, #CherishYourMan, #SupportYourMan, as long as he does the same. If not, #DumpHisAss, but don't #abuse him. Let him be happier elsewhere, and may be you can do the same.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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