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Just A Thought (Abusive Women): 

10/9/2015

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Ladies, please ‪#‎stop‬ abusing your ‪#‎men‬. I know we often associate abuse with the male species; however, women can be ‪#‎abusive‬ too, just typically in a different capacity. Yelling at him and belittling him doesn't help your ‪#‎relationship‬ to grow. Sticking your fingers in his face means you don't ‪#‎respect‬ him---and if you don't respect a man, you CANNOT be in a relationship with him. Threatening to leave him or forcing him to alienate his friends and/or ‪#‎family‬ creates animosity between the two of you, but also with the people he loves most. Using your children as ‪#‎bait‬never helps. And only being nice to him when he gets paid makes you more like his pimp than his partner. Ladies, ladies, ladies...please hear me; the same way you don't want to be ‪#‎manipulated‬ or ‪#‎manhandled‬(outside of the bedroom) is the same way he feels about your ‪#‎rejection‬,‪#‎ridicule‬, and lack of respect. The same way you desire to find solace in his smile and in his arms, is the same reception he wants from you. No one gets married or enters a relationship hoping to be warn down, but not everyone is strong enough or smart enough to leave it. So, ‪#‎ladies‬,‪#‎LoveYourMan‬, ‪#‎CherishYourMan‬, ‪#‎SupportYourMan‬, as long as he does the same. If not, ‪#‎DumpHisAss‬, but don't ‪#‎abuse‬ him. Let him be happier elsewhere, and may be you can do the same.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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    I, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves.

    Subsequently, both my book and my website seek to help salvage our realistic expectations and eliminate our unrealistic beliefs. With these words, I aim to transform misconception into certainty, and disillusion into faith, in hopes that you'll each come to recognize who you are, what you are, and what you deserve.

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