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Just A Thought (A Few Good Men): 

10/11/2014

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IF YOU WANT A GOOD MAN, BE A GOOD WOMAN. Good men are all around us if we'd just take the time to see them. But if all we can acknowledge are losers, then good men will be unrecognizable to us. If all we want are thugs, whores, liars, abusers, or grown ass boys who are immature and duck responsibility, then good men will be invisible to us. If we chase boys, submit to boys, live for boys, and enjoy their games, we can't complain that we're unhappy, because we've made the choice to let good men pass us by. If we want men to love us wholly, we can only entertain those who are able. So, HEAR THIS: Good men (grown men) want MORE than your panties; they also want your time. Good men (grown men) enjoy being needed and depended on; they don't run when it's time to protect and support you. Think about this the next time you have to take your baby-daddy to court for child support; the next time "your man" comes home with lipstick on his collar; the next time you get a call from your spying ass cousin who saw him arm-in-arm with "what's her name"; the next time the police show up at your house because he hit you again, or the next time you decide to sit up all night and wait for him to get home but he decides to "sleep" elsewhere. Baby girl; let's make each of these circumstances the last time. Good guys don't disappear on their woman. They don't embarrass their woman. Good guys simply love their woman. "Good" doesn't mean unattractive. "Good" doesn't mean pushover. "Good" doesn't mean boring. Good just guarantees that he'll consider your heart, and do what's necessary to protect it.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible




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    I, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves.

    Subsequently, both my book and my website seek to help salvage our realistic expectations and eliminate our unrealistic beliefs. With these words, I aim to transform misconception into certainty, and disillusion into faith, in hopes that you'll each come to recognize who you are, what you are, and what you deserve.

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