Just A Quote (Only Love Can Conquer Hate):

While leaving Red Lobster this afternoon, I was witness to a domestic violence situation. A man, in a white sports car, called his "woman" a bitch in every language you could imagine. And she, in turn, replied, "You can't fuck, drive, or make money; you fuckin' loser!!!!" Now let me say, the saddest thing in the world to me is a bitter, broken woman. He obviously has/had something you like, so you stayed. I know women whose men don't work, but their "pipe game" is mean, so their women are willing to foot the bills. I also know men with deep pockets, whose pipe games are teetering on pathetic but they keep a woman 'cause their paper is right. But I have never met a woman dumb enough to love a man who doesn't offer her anything. The point of that man would be what? #Exactly Nothing!!!! That man gave you something to latch onto. You fell for something he did right. And now he's pulled it away. Maybe he's changed; maybe it was you.#StrangerInMyHouse But don't lie on his pants or his paper because you're pissed. "If he can't learn to love you, you should leave him. 'Cause sista you don't him. I'm not trying to gas you up, I just call it like I see it" (Tupac). If he ain't shit why are you beating his ass in the parking lot at Red Lobster? Hate requires passion and concern, so he definitely means something. And to my not so bright brother in the sports car, with Pepsi all over his hood, the sex may be good, but she's obviously loco. #Run These fatal attractions are how people end up on the evening news. If our men/women can't, won't, or don't add to us, bring increase to our happiness, and/or add an abundance of smiles to our mouths, it's time to DUMP THAT ASS!!! Ladies, stop hitting on these men, because when they knock the hell outta you, you're gonna wanna stab him or his tires, but you're just as guilty. I don't condone violence, but don't dish it, if you can't take it. #WalkAway #OnlyLoveCanConquerHate #HandsOff #ExceptForInTheBedroom #LoveHimOrLeaveHim #AppreciateHerOrStepAside it.

-Kanika A. Vann 
Author, Love: Possible

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