Be less impressed with his paper, and more impressed by his proof of love, his presence, and his protection of you.
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
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If he has the ability to give you what you give him, give him a #chance. If he can prove it, give him your #time. If he does it all with a #smile, give him your #energy. And if he strives to do it whenever he can, however he can, give him your #heart. All too often, we give our #love away with no intention to receive his love in return. #WrongAnswer!!! We love him for no good reason other than it making us feel good. #NoNoNo!!! Ladies, we have failed to factor in what we need into the relationship equation. We have forgotten to speak up, mistakenly confusing the "role" of a woman with the soul of a woman. That good man who "chose you and shows you" everyday, is who and what you want for your life. But that brother that lies down with you, then lies to you, ain't it. #HeGottaShow #NotTell #GoodLove #TBT #2015
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible Take it how you want to, make as many excuses as you need to, but how he treats you is a direct reflection of how he feels about you. No effort = no concern. Lies = no respect. #TakeThatToTheBank.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible Don't simply turn his head, help to make him better and turn his life around. A man's greatest source of strength is having the right woman by his side. He pretends to know it all; he pretends to be strong all the time--it's how he was conditioned--but we know that to be bullshit. We know he cries and fears and dreams. Why not lead him to make better decisions, protect his heart, and provide him with all of the love he can handle? Women lead, protect, and provide too. #LoveHim!!!!
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible Waiting for him to grow, behave, or see only changes you. #Ijs There's no glory in suffering; not a drop.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible Your heart and your head should not be introduced until you're sure he has some staying power.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible You degrade yourself for his money; lose yourself in his presence; demean yourself for his presents; disregard his wife and other life for your selfishness; beg, borrow, and steal for his status, then wonder why you're single, unhappy, depressed, suicidal, and don't have shit. Instead of creating a whole you, you rely on other people to create "her" for you. And that, my dear, is the #WrongAnswer!!! #RealWomen are about their business, not about his come up. Stop relying on everyone else to get what you want. #WomanUp, #ListenUp, #RealTalk. #TBT #2015
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible You're specific about your diet, choosy about your selfies, sure about your shoes, and funny about your friends, but let will let any man into your space. #SMH #AssBackwards #GetItRight
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible Ladies, if he ain't claiming you, reclaim your common sense and put your damn debit card/credit card back in your purse. Why are you buying presents for a man who fails to consistently gift you with his presence, or his commitment, or his honesty? Ya'll better stop playing.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible |
AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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