-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
Sometimes you #grow #impatient waiting to hear #his "I love you," when he shows you everyday. Because he #professes his #love in a #language that you won't allow yourself to #learn, #you feel slighted and #suspicious. But he always makes sure you have what you #need. He makes sure you have gas in your car before you head home. He wants to know if you got home safely. He asks if you ate today. He never forgets to call and say, "Good Morning," or text: 'rise and shine #beautiful'. He comes over to take care of you when you're sick. He holds you when you're weary. He listens when you worry. He leads you when you're lost. So, what part of his "I love you" did you miss? Sometimes we are our biggest #obstacle, especially when we analyze the #life out of everything, #speak more than we #listen, and don't learn to #recognize that #actions speak louder than #words. Ideally, he would say it and show it. But how many #men/#women do you know that speak the words, but with actions that fail to match? #ItHappens.#ILoveYou's come in their own time and what leads to that place will be evident way before his lips part to say the words. #Ijs... #DontBeDumb. His#care and #concern should be #prerequisites to your love #expectations or your want for a romantic #relationship.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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He #cheats...you #cry. He #lies...you #complain. He plays...you blame yourself. He disrespects you...you pretend not to see it. He runs...you chase. And he apologizes...so you stay. But what if when he cheats, you walk away? If when he lied, you lost his number? How about you don't give him 12+ times to apologize? That when he plays, you fail to acknowledge him, the way he fails to acknowledge you? And when he hides, you let him remain invisible? #Please STOP RELINQUISHING YOUR #POWER!!!!#ForTheLoveOfGod STOP ACCEPTING HIS LAME EXCUSES!!! And unless you like, love, or welcome his #abuse, STOP BELIEVING HIS#BULLSHIT!!!! #Disrespect is unacceptable. #Dishonesty is intolerable, and allowing him to #Degrade you is absolutely the #WrongAnswer. So put your big girl panties on, woman up, and realize that it's okay to #WalkAway.#TBT #2015
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible #Ladies, I #pray that when I #encourage you to #recognize your #worth that you don't assume that I'm talking about #finances. The worth that I speak of is in relation to what your #heart deserves. A #man can 'wine and dine' you but not #treasure you. He can make #love to your body, but never #touch your #mind. He may look the part or speak the part, have a nice title attached to his name, and make lots of #money, but who are you to him? How #valuable are you to him? This is the worth I want you to take hold of; knowing that he should love you; knowing that you #deserve to#smile.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible #Ladies, #stop letting these #men short-change you with things. #Effort is, and always will be, more valuable than #money.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible What compels you to believe his #fuckery, when he's proven himself to be a liar? What compels you to play his #games, when he's shown you who he really is? Why are you willing to wait for him to be ready, when he clearly enjoys being #carefree? #UseYourHead and read my lips: #HE#AINT #READY!!!
-Kanika A. Vann Author Love: Possible He says he #loves you, but you're always swimming in #confusion?#Hmmm... #LOL...#Okay; #DumpHisAss. He can't #love you thoroughly, maturely, or earnestly if he can't provide #stability, #consistency, loyalty, honesty, and sincerity. If you can't trust him with this or that, #Smh ...child, you're already losing.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible 206 people reached Broken individuals CANNOT have whole #relationships. #BelieveIt!!!! Now, HEAR THIS: If your man/woman is broken, it is not your job to fix them, it's theirs. And while you may find it commendable to stand by them while they "justifiably" abuse you, continuously make poor #choices, and slowly, but surely self-destruct, LET'S BE HONEST: all you're really doing is waiting for them to #change, hoping to reap the benefits of your #loyalty, and subsequently rewarded for your #strength. [#ThatsSelfish.] But how long do you wait for change? And are the #tears you shed a symbol of your strength, or your stupidity? How about the #stress, or worry you endure? And all of this to stand by a shell of a man/woman who'll eventually break you too. If he/she truly loves you, they'd want you to have the best them they could be, but it's very possible that they don't know how to give it to you. So I'm telling you: that you loving them means you've got to let them find who or what that is. In that, we must learn to #LetGo, or at the very least, loosen the grip, because we can't grow together if we don't walk a similar path. #DontLetHisBrokennessBreakYou#DontLetHerFoolishnessFuckYouUp #BeSmarter Trying to love a man/woman in spite of all they are is commendable, but sacrificing your sanity to make it a reality is stupid. #WakeUp #TBT #2014
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible In #relationships, you've just got to let it #flow. Let it flow, or let it go, because I'm telling you now, that if you have to #force it, you'll eventually#divorce it!!!!!!!!!!! #TrustMe.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, #Love: Possible 2 people reached #Ladies, no #text is a #message; no #call is a message; no #kiss is a message; little to no #affection is a message; hiding you is a message; not#committing to you is a message; not #sharing with you is a message; #liesare a message; and the #inability to #love you and only you is a message. You #doubt yourself #day in and day out about not being "#ENOUGH," about why he can't see you or why he won't #change. Like a #fool, you sit back, and wait for the #words, but if he's done any or all of the above, baby girl, he's already sent the message. #MessageReceived #LoveTKO #Next
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible Are ya'll #building or #bullshitting? #LetsBeHonest. Are you passing time or spending #time #together? #YoudBetterFigureItOut.
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
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