-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible
#Ladies, when we #love ourselves, we tend to make better #choices, invite better company, and entertain more positive #attention. It is quite noticeable to a #man, whether or not you care about your #heart, because when you do, you're more selective about who you give it to. You're not fooling him or anyone else when you claim to know your #worthbut find yourself #heart broken every 6 weeks. You're not fooling him or anyone else when you say you're ready but show that you're #afraid. What message do you think it sends to him when you make #excuses for his bad #behavior or overlook his #foolishness? No one wants to deal with#bullshit, but a #woman who refuses to play #games has no reason to hide from love. He either has what she wants or doesn't. If he doesn't, there are no conversations to be had; she simply moves on, because she loves herself enough to #WalkAway.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible
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#Ladies, you do know that the best time to #work on #yourself is before you meet him? That you'll do the most for your #relationship before you enter into one? And that you must be whole before you can possibly be his better half? #OhOkay Just thought I'd jog your #memory... #WakeUp!!! You can't wait for him to #love you. #ItAllStartsWithYou... #LoveHerNow!!!
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible #Brothers, if you make her feel #loved, you're doing your #job. If you make her feel #safe, you're doing your job. If you allow her to be#vulnerable, you're doing your job. If you have proved yourself to be#trustworthy, you're doing your job. If you #honor her as a woman, as well as the #relationship she believes she shares with you, you are doing your job. It has been ingrained in you to expect difficulty from a #woman. But if you #respect her, #listen as often as you #lead her, #love her,#communicate with her, are mature about your shit, and throw it down when it's time, she will love you in ways you never knew existed.#EasyAs123!!! #TrustMe!!! It's your #consistency in these areas that will determine how #consistent she is with her #attitude, her #reception of you, and her #ability to #trust you.#PutAStampOnIt...#PostThisOnHisPage :)
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible You tell me you feel like shit; like nothing; that you're incomplete without him. But what difference does it make if you feel like shit; like nothing, and are incomplete while you're "with" him? You hold on to him for the sake of "having a man." You carry around the weight of a heavy heart to save face, and have convinced yourself that it's okay to feel empty and be unhappy, because having a piece of him is better than having none of him; because having a piece of him matters more than your peace of mind. But how much sense does that really make? When will you choose to rally for your heart the same way you rally for his? In all honesty, for as much as you think you love him, it's quite impossible that you do. Ladies [I'm gonna write this in BOLD so that you understand], YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY LOVE HIM WHOLLY WHEN YOU'VE YET TO LOVE YOU.
#BeStrong #ItsOkayToWalkAway #YouHaveToMatterToYouToo #TBT#2014 -Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible #Ladies, please stop allowing these #men to act as #commas in your#sentences. No more #pauses; no more stalling; no more #continuationswithout reason. If he's not down for you; let him go...#PERIOD.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible #AppreciateHer. #ShowHer. #TellHer. #RespectHer. #ProtectHer.#LoveHer. But only if #ShesWorthIt!!!
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible #AppreciateHim. #RespectHim. #LoveHim. But only if #HesWorthIt!!!
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible #Effort is how #men show their #love, #ladies. He may not #cook well or make the most #money, but he tries everyday to make you #smile, to not burn surprise #dinners, to prove his love, to #honor his #commitment and to guard your #heart. His #connection to you and his #relationship with you should never be about #perfection, but rather the #energy he puts into justifying his #presence.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible I can't understand how a #woman expects to be a #man's priority when she's never been her own. #FixIt, #ladies.
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AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
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