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 Love is no reason to lose yourself. A relationship is not an excuse to lose yourself. "He" is never a reason to lose yourself. Always hold on to you. Knowing who you are is the beginning of wisdom; the beginning of happiness; the beginning of love.
-Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible
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 -Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible  "Helping to heal hurts, clear vision, utilize common sense, let go of what used to be, hold on to what is, and make Love: Possible©, one heart at a time!"
-Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible  -Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible  Just a word to the wise: Don't hate him; don't regret him; don't carry that detriment in your spirit. Instead, thank the heaven's for him; for your purpose, for his purpose in adding to your purpose, for his being a liar or an abuser, a cheater or a loser. Thank him for who he wasn't and for being the asshole that we was. And while you're at it, buy him a Hallmark card thanking him for his worthlessness–because you're now better for it; even better than you were with him. If you haven't already done so, take this moment to turn that hatred, that frustration, and that bitterness into a determination to choose better, do better, and know better the next time around.
-Kanika A. Vann Author, Love: Possible  If your spidey-senses are tingling for any reasons other than your doctor-prescribed medication, go with your gut, and listen to your heart. Unless you're under the influence, mentally-deranged, or happen to be a 15-year old who has to learn shit the hard way, chances are something's amiss. So, let's get it together; hit control, alt, delete: walk away, dump his ass, and move the hell on!!!!
-Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible  You feel like nothing without him. But what difference does it make if you feel like nothing with him?
-Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible  A relationship does not banish loneliness. Only when we are comfortable with who we are can we truly function independently, in a healthy way, and truly function within a relationship. Two halves DO NOT make a whole; it takes two wholes to gain, maintain, and preserve a healthy situation.
-Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible  Some of ya'll need a reality check, because many of the things we allow to bother us--shouldn't. The people we allow to hurt us--shouldn't. The superficial things we place so much value on mean nothing. And the relationships we are losing our hair over, our precious moments over, and so much sleep over, mean nothing. It's about time to fill out that reality check; time to be real honest about who you are, and what you are a part of. See your experiences as payment for your troubles, and get started on a new line of work--new employer, new wardrobe, new hours, and new attitude. Don't bring the old into the new; only bring you!!!!
-Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible  -Kanika Vann Author, Love: Possible |
AuthorI, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves. CategoriesArchives
April 2017
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