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Just A Thought (If We Let It):

2/22/2014

If he hurts you, crying doesn't remove the pain; hating him won't remove the hurt, and conjuring up a façade of indifference only makes us bitter. But time will heal us, if we let it! Intelligence can save us, if we let it. Determination can propel us, if we let it. And LEAVING the PAST firmly nestled in the PAST (although we take some lessons with us) surely, beautifully, and freely gives us the chance to see goodness more clearly—if we let it!

-Kanika Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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Just A Thought (Goodness):

2/19/2014

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If you want a good man, be a good woman. And if you manage to become a good woman, don't accept anything less than a good man, because you deserve a man who is everything to you that you are to him.

-Kanika Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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Just A Thought (Catalyst):

2/16/2014

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The person who changes your life for the better was, at one point, a stranger; just another face in the crowd, someone who knew nothing of your past or present, and possibly approached you with just the hope of knowing your name. Whether he or she became your friend, your love, or your God-send, you were led to him or her, drawn to him or her, and now you couldn't possibly live without him or her. If you are blessed enough to know love in this life (despite the form), appreciate it. Love is often spoken, but there are only a few who will show it to you, convince you of it, and prove it, time and time again.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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Just A Thought (Reality Check):

2/13/2014

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Ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm seriously all for sexual liberation; being free and all that 'ish, but don't lose yourself in the land of reality TV. Life is not a game (or a show), and while television celebrates the glamour and justification that accompany forbidden, taboo, and scandalous affairs, there can also be some disastrous effects. He might leave his wife. He may decide to never lie again. He may even decide to turn his life around now that you're in it. Maybe not. Who knows? Love is a strange thing; it can hit us at anytime, and can blind us because it's selfish. But if loving you is wrong, I sure don't wanna be the dumb bitch that sticks around to get her reality check.

-Kanika Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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Just A Thought (Knee Deep):

2/12/2014

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Believe in love, even when you're knee deep in a pile of what used to be, wondering how you got there and why it ended.

-Kanika Vann

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Just A Thought (Fairy Tales):

2/8/2014

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I never wanted the fairytale. I didn't need the illusions, the diamonds, or the picket fence. All I ever wanted was "uncomplicated." But "uncomplicated," I came to find, was the real fairytale, because every job is difficult, every relationship tested, every love—imperfect.

-Kanika Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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Just A Thought (Hurt):

2/5/2014

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HURT PEOPLE, HURT PEOPLE. Remember that the next time you decide to love a man who's damaged [bitter, broken, distrustful, insecure, or abusive]. Not until he's healed is he even worth your while, your body, time, or future. You can't fix him, no matter what you do, try, give or offer. You can't raise a man, and you can't save him either. Real talk; leave the salvation to him and his maker, and you be the best "you" that you can be for the man who is ready, willing, able, prepared, and down for the cause.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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Just A Thought (Love/Success):

2/2/2014

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We see your smile; he sees your pain. We see your hope; he sees your fear. We celebrate your successes, but he's held your hand through every trial. We see your worry and he shares the burden.

From the outside looking in, you are superwoman; able to do any and everything you put your mind and money to. But to him, you are a real woman, a whole woman; one who rises, and falls, and rises again. One who cries and smiles, has needs and wants, and not only looks the part, but loves. Yes, money buys things and titles impress strangers, but love keeps us happy; love keeps us connected, love keeps our hearts beating.

-Kanika A. Vann
Author, Love: Possible

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I, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves.

Subsequently, both my book and my website seek to help salvage our realistic expectations and eliminate our unrealistic beliefs. With these words, I aim to transform misconception into certainty, and disillusion into faith, in hopes that you'll each come to recognize who you are, what you are, and what you deserve.

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