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Just A Thought (Waiting for Love):

2/27/2013

Part of knowing you're ready for love is being open to it. If you're not ready for it or open to it, you're wasting your time. You can't make a person eat when they're full, no matter how good it looks, smells or tastes. You won't even dare to put it near your mouth if you don't have the room. And love is no different. If you're still in love with your past, you can't fall in love with your present. And love can't be rightly discovered, if we don't want to put in the work to find it.
-Kanika Vann

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Just A Thought (Appletree):

2/24/2013

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If you're looking for a man, looking for a woman: remember that "The quality of foundation determines the degree of stability." Look at her mama, look at his daddy. I'm not saying that that's the only factor. But trust me, it matters! Crazy is, as crazy does; and those bad apples don't fall far from the tree.
-Kanika Vann

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Just A Thought (Gratitude):

2/23/2013

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Gratitude is a very underestimated virtue. So if he doesn't have it, why does he have you?
-Kanika Vann

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Just A Thought (Deuces):

2/20/2013

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You get what you want by showing what you want. Men understand 'do' a lot more than they understand 'say.' Let what you want be known, because you gotta set the boundaries in the beginning. If he didn't hear you the first time, or doesn't remember you saying it, say it ONE MORE TIME for old times sake, just to give him the benefit of the doubt. If he don't get it after that (like my book says:) DUMP HIS ASS! He's obviously void of the ability to hear, follow directions, or just doesn't give a shit. Either way, we don't want men who refuse to hear our concerns, don't care about them, or can't take the time to make them a priority! #junk_the_deuces
-Kanika Vann

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Yeah, What He Said...

2/20/2013

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Ask the Author (You Give Me Butterflies):

2/18/2013

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Dear Love,
I'm missing the butterflies you used to give me.
-[Name Removed]

Dear [Name Removed],
When those butterflies dissipate and yet the two of you remain, love is proven. Butterflies feel really good, but that's more infatuation. If it were only butterflies we were chasing, we'd be in love with someone new every week, but I love the enthusiasm.
-Kanika

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Just A Thought (Life Force):

2/15/2013

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Love is as natural as breathing; and is just as necessary.
-Kanika A. Vann

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Just A Quote (Edwin Louis Cole):

2/12/2013

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The degree of loving is measured by the degree of giving.
-Edwin Louis Cole

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Just A Thought (Hallmark/Kay Day):

2/11/2013

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Alright ya'll, Valentine's Day is rearing its ugly, revenue-driven head? Are you celebrating it? Acknowledging it? Or going about business as usual? Valentine's Day, as you may have already guessed, is my favorite holiday, but not because of the candy or balloons. I love the history behind it; the significance of sacrifice. The way we celebrate it now, is all Hallmark Cards and Kay Jewelers, but despite the commercialism, its purpose is pretty wonderful. The best advice I can give anyone on this upcoming day is to love your man/lady everyday, not just on Valentine's Day. Appreciate him/her everyday. Thank God everyday that he/she is by your side, because they could be by someone else's. #each day is Valentine's day! or should be!
-Kanika Vann

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Just A Thought (Stop; Think About It):

2/10/2013

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Some may affirm that boundaries were made to be crossed and rules were made to be broken. But keep in mind that some shit should never be fucked with, because some damage is irreversible. And trust, is one of those things. While it's only natural for us to test some limits, we'd be crazy to damage the trust that we build with those we love. Trust is the best proof of love, and where there's no trust, there's no us. Don't believe me? Go ahead; fuck it up. Good luck trying to rebuild it once it's been destroyed. #It may not be impossible, but damn if it'll be easy....
-Kanika Vann

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I, Kanika Vann (writer, author, editor, journalist, poet, publisher, and love enthusiast), created Love: Possible© with the intent to help save my sisters from the unnecessary pain that accompanies the acceptance of confusion, dysfunction, and disrespect in our romantic relationships, but not without calling special attention to our most valuable relationship—the one we have with ourselves.

Subsequently, both my book and my website seek to help salvage our realistic expectations and eliminate our unrealistic beliefs. With these words, I aim to transform misconception into certainty, and disillusion into faith, in hopes that you'll each come to recognize who you are, what you are, and what you deserve.

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